I was honoured to be a guest blogger back in September on Krysta Figueroa's site Due Dates Are Dumb.
At first I was nervous to put part of our story out there. Writing it was a journey. It brought up a lot of emotions and realizations that I had actually worked through a lot of our stay in the NICU already.
Even though it wasn't that long ago that I wrote the post, I look back and feel so glad that I did it. It has helped me see more of where I need to take care of myself. I know now that I can write parts of my story and the roof isn't going to cave in on me. And I also have a sense of healing from doing that work and taking the time for myself to process as I wrote.
If you'd like to read the post, check it out here on Krysta's site.
If you're interested in being a writer, message me. I'd love to chat with you about your visions.
Always sending Love,
Leanne Rose
Original post date: October 20th, 2017
Do you have a preemie in your life? When was it that you stopped thinking of their age in terms of two birthdays?
He is absorbing SO MUCH at this ripe ol’ age of 3 it is phenomenal! And this is why I want to stop. He has his own story after all.
This video shares the details of my self-imposed promise to myself and to him. Check it out…
Having a baby can be the most adventuresome part of any person’s life. Having a baby in the NICU can be the most traumatic.
I believe that I was supposed to be a trauma therapist before I had my son. I don’t think I could have recovered as quickly or known what was happening to me if I didn’t have that background knowledge. That time in the delivery room and the two months in the NICU was what has now sculpted my life.
Now don’t assume that because I was a trauma therapist going through a NICU experience things went smoothly for me, on the contrary, things were totally out of control! I can look back and just see it as an experience because I’ve done A LOT of healing and soul searching and looking at my son. There are definite times when I purposely have to access my trauma counsellor brain to ask some tough questions of myself and how I want to move forward.
So that’s where this blog post sort of stems from, from the...
This is my very first online video! Boy was I nervous and unsure of what to do. (Honestly I’m still a bit shaky, but hoping that will go away in time.) :)
You’ll find out a bit about me and what I first envisioned for My NICU Family.
You might get a good giggle as I stumble through some parts, but I hope you can feel the love I hold for you and all of our little NICU babes.
Here’s that video!
Love Leanne
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